37 here. Single. Never married. No kids. And happier than a pig in ****. I do what I want, when I want, how I want, and nobody can tell me otherwise. I work at a fire department with 105 men who all pretty much say the same thing as you, DF, and that is "Don't do it!!!" Many of them have been down that road, and it ain't as pretty as it first seems.
And even if you get a prenup, which you should regardless of who makes what, it better be a damned good one, from a good, solid attorney who knows the laws in your state, because not all of them will hold up when stuff hits the fan. Be careful out there. Those women are wacky! :D